We’ve been in the season of Advent - the four weeks leading up to Christmas morning. And during this season, the primary theme has been waiting and expectation. Just as a child eagerly awaits the arrival of Christmas day, the day that involves opening all those gifts piled under the tree, Advent is about a waiting. It’s about an expectation. It’s about eagerness. But what we’re eager for is more than packages and objects and things that will one day break and be disposed of. We’re eagerly waiting for the celebration of Jesus. And we’re eagerly waiting for the arrival of Jesus once again. For 400 years, since the time of the prophets who had come to tell Israel about a coming Messiah, God’s people had been waiting for that arrival. Isaiah announced that a child would be born and a son given. He declared that the government would be upon his shoulders and that his name would be called “Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.” This was a promise ma...
Mindfulness, self-awareness, acknowledgement, and acceptance. These are qualities and practices that many modern-day experts promote as some of the keys to emotional and mental well-being. They aren’t wrong. I’ve experienced the power of these practices at different times in my own life. Being self-aware, paying attention to what’s going on inside of yourself, acknowledging feelings and experiences and struggles all have helped me to grow in many ways over the year, pushing me out of my head and helping me to approach my problems with greater clarity. It has been said that avoidance leads to pathology. When we distract ourselves in order to avoid feeling what we’re feeling, this causes problems. This is partly where our suffering begins. When we stay so busy that we don’t have the time to even notice what might be going on inside of us, this is an issue. When we know what we’re feeling (anxious, afraid, sad, exhausted, hurt, alone) but we don’t do anything to address or resolv...